Cremation
What's involved in cremation?
The body is often enclosed in a rigid container of combustible material. The container is placed in a cremation chamber where it undergoes up to three hours of direct flame, intense heat and evaporation. The container is consumed and the body is transformed into skeletal fragments, more commonly called cremated remains. The cremated remains are then processed into fine particles and are placed in an urn.
Is a service of remembrance appropriate?
Yes, a service of remembrance is a caring and meaningful event in which family and friends have an opportunity to honor their loved one and say a last "good-bye." Viewing the deceased's body before cremation often helps the bereaved accept the fact a death has occurred and resolve grief more readily.
One of the most important aspects of the service of remembrance is to support and give comfort to the immediate family. Many families prefer to individualize the service by focusing on a special interest. This may include some aspect of the person's religion, family tradition, ethnic background, or occupation. The service of remembrance will leave your family and friends with lasting memories of the years you spent together.
Does cremation preclude a service?
Not at all. The cremation is simply delayed until the service has taken place. Or if cremation is requested immediately, a memorial service can be held without the body present.
Can my ashes be scattered?
While cremation is a personal decision, scattering the cremated remains after cremation can leave family and friends without a place or manner in which to pay tribute. You can satisfy both your wishes and those of family and friends through permanent memorialization. This gives your family and friends a place to visit, which often helps in the recovery process. Keep in mind that federal, state and local regulations may limit the areas where cremation remains may be scattered.